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好英文文章,不看嗎?(轉貼)
As an Adult Business Teacher, i listen to a lot of answers to
topic questions in my class. when the topic gets around to love and relationships you always hear TW Girls saying the same exact shit i want a guy who is tall, understands me, is responsible, etc"The problem with this is they never really define what responsible is. From my experience, what they mean by responsible is "safe". They want some castrated man with spiked hair who never takes chances, never moves in a direction that might make them feel unsafe, never walks the path less chosen. They want a guy who is just bent to their wishes for "their dreams" ie, the house, the car, the baby, the whole nine yards. Nothing is wrong with those things, except that they have become the "Price For Admission" so to speak, rather than the result of two people's love and efforts for one another. They constantly take shortcuts. These Women always talk about how they want someone who understands them. By this, i take it to mean they want an extension of their spoiling family or old boyfriends (Plan B... but still wait around) who will put up with their temper tantrums, immaturity, and stupidity. These women are basically in the market for either daddy or their older brother, someone who is used to their bullshit. Expecting someone to understand you is the height of immaturity. We should seek more to understand others than to be understood. The world owes us nothing, but we live in it, and should learn to adapt to it, not the other way around. i find TW women to be utterly selfish, insecure, and self centered. As I have seen with many couples and unfortunate friends, when they age it's even more nonstop bitching and moaning. The focus just becomes on more money, more eating, more competition to show off to family and friends. You can forget about an exciting sex life. Lately i look at them with a mild disgust, despite some of their physical beauty. No pussy is worth being constantly drained by these emotional vampires. Funny, with the many new girls I meet here, I aways say to myself"this one is different". LOL! Nope, same shit with a different package.Same movie played over and over. Oh Well, at least have a little fun, play their game, complement them on how brilliant it is to wear glasses without lenses, expect to pay for lots of dinners out. And most important....Yes, indeed, know when to say next. Their stock will in value quick and is a short sale. HK Girls are a way better catch. |
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Sad,but true (sorry, girls...)
This guy is an axx hoxx. I mean, who does he think he is to have posted something like that? But sisters, let's face it. There's no denying that some of us do act and talk like an immatured ten-year old girl before men, and some become really easy and even "chexx" in front of westerners. I actually eyewitnessed it a couple of times here and in America. I'm not saying I feel comfortable reading this, but I would like to see this posting as a chance for us girls in Taiwan to reflect on our thinking and behavior, because let's also not forget, bad news travels, and it travels far. |
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I'm ABC and came back to Taiwan (I've had my share of girlfriends
in USA). In 5 years staying here (and dating several TWN girls from 25-36 yos, here is my take: Taiwanese women are narcissists, especially if she is even slightly attractive. Most of them live off their parents. If they are well-off, forget about scoring with them unless you are more well-off than them, their parents will find every reason in the world NOT to be with you. $$$$ is king, you can be fat, butt-ugly but if you are rich or appear rich, they will find every reason in the world to like you. And if you are not, you can become 'friends' with them, you simply become her platonic biitch, she only calls when she needs you and will never ever admit she is just using you for material things but will always give you you subtle hints of the Coach, LV, or expensive electronic gadget that she really really wants for her B-day. Worse, forgetting to bring her purse when inviting her & her friends to meet you. And if she brings it, puts the onus on you to pay for it by sitting there silently, not moving, as if waiting for the 'traditional-male ' to pick up the tab. And if she is poor, she is even more materialistic. I remember our company hired a TWN girl (27) never held a steady job, complain to us how little she makes and how her mom has no job and how she has to support her mom... then I found out her 1st paycheck, she went out and bought a IPhone4.. Saying how i twas always her dream. All I can say was "wow" thinking how full of shit she was. And I'm talking about girls that aren't even that attractive. Maybe a 7/8 out of 10. Yes I'm being shallow by putting them on a scale like that, but if I'm one feet deep, these girls' can be measured in micrometers. The younger ones that are even semi-attractive, are even more materialistic and pretentious. Most pretend they are not materialistic. And the few that are not after $$$, are after Beiber looks no matter how gay-looking or irresponsible these guys are. Most don't have a job and those that do, spend as much money on their looks as the girls. There are no Rambos, athletic real man here (ok maybe 5% of population, sorry to these real guys). The guys these girls hang out with are perfect mirror of themselves, devoid of any personality and has the sophistication of a Lego block. Most of the skinny, wannabes gay looking guys (they actually think they are model-quality!!) hang around disco clubs, malls like spoiled rich American teenagers and spend all their money on the latest fashion craze. The guys are so skinny and feeble (I'm sure they can double their size if they went to gym and worked out) that if a typhoon come suddenly, they all be blow to the ocean. The only thing that makes their wheel turn are MSN, SKYPE, Facebook, self-portraits of themselves plastered all over each other's home pages. God, they make Bieber look macho. No, I'm not the jealous type, I'm just telling it as it is. I've also been to China/Vietnam/Thailand and there is a world of difference in the girls' attitudes when I meet them. I remember meeting girls that are 9 on a scale of 10, with no attitudes, no BS, no mark-ups that will put the TWN girls to shame. The girls I've dated, I eventually dumped them for several reasons. Most girls if they waited until 33 yo, they become DESPERATE, what they will never give the time of day few years ago all of a sudden become a candidate for that future husband who will have a baby with her and enslaved to them the rest of their lives. They are too old for most guys looking for younger girls and the nice guys they dumped years ago have married, so they are looking for ANYONE that makes more than the typical TWN guys and that is less than 15 years older than them. And if the girls are 25-30 yo., you are an ATM to them. What the make a month they can't save enough for the credit cards they maxed out last year,let alone thinking about next week. They are always complaining about not having enough money, I would tell them in my previous relationships, my girlfriends never 'ask' or expect me to support their lifestyle, they ALWAYS lived a lifestyle that they can afford. It isn't about buying her expensive girls or being cheap, it is about having a solidrelationship based on trust, caring and understanding and respecting each other. Those words are like PHD dissertation to a kindergarten kid. Yes they will eventually learn, but these types of girls in TWN are the NORM not exception. A TWN man once told me, TWN young generation is fvcked. They try to copycat the worst (superficial side) of USA and Japan but they don't have the talent, means or education or skills to sustain their lifestyle they seek. That is why they rather live day to day pretending to be Japanese,or cool American teenagers and LET their parents or idiot guys that chase them pay for it. Granted, there are exceptions, but you must look like Bratt Pitt or Bieber, then you can sex with 1,000 of them without even breaking a sweat.yet the nicest guy can't even hold-hands with them because they are that stuck up. In fact, that is what one of my friend has told me. he said it is so easy to have sex with 18-20 yos in Taipei, Kaohsiung or Taichung, all you have to do is dress cool and have the 'right-look' - as they are infatuated with blue-eyed, blond hair, Bratt-Pitts, all their cold-BS, pretentious shitt s as fast as their skirts. Then these same girls will come crying to you (I know some of them and have even warned them what these guys are after, but these girls believe in Cinderella stories and think they are the only Cinderella in the world). They will cry, sob about how these guys cheated on them, how they trusted them blah blah...and never ever trust them again... I just laugh inside know if the same guy calls her again next week or another guy, they fall for it again.) |
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Good read.
Teach'em girls love's not about one's height, but about one's length and width. |
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没有說那裡好,你回去重寫吧
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巫師重生 ?
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不可能啦, 我也才申請這一個帳號而已. 這頭像配這id實再太好笑了 此文章於 2012-09-03 02:18 PM 被 嚇死你 編輯. |
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Good read indeed, however I still hold my position on "you are who you date", or "you are who you hang with".
There are definitely girls like the posts described, but they are not the norm. I've heard about about them all the time, but girls around me, or girls that I dated are nothing like the grils in the post. The posters meet girls that they describes, because they themselves are not normal TW guys in a normal TW environment, they are either foreigners that teach English to a bunch of 西餐妹, or ABCs that meet girls in clubs, and these environments or circumstances are hardly the "norm". I've been living in TW for the past decade , during this time period I have dated at least 4~5 TW girls, and known countless others. And none of them are like the post describes, none. Because I choose not to meet grils in the clubs, or choose not to be acquainted or associated to girls with a 西餐妹 reputation. "You are who you date", if you choose to meet girls in that kind of environment, or if you choose girls base on their appearance, then don't compliant about the CHEAPNESS of these girls, or lack of intellect of these girls. BTW, I wholeheartedly aggress with the comment on glasses without lenses , that is almost the most ridiculous trend or fad that I have experienced. 此文章於 2012-09-03 02:28 PM 被 cesarlin 編輯. |
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WTF .....
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