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I'm ABC and came back to Taiwan (I've had my share of girlfriends
in USA). In 5 years staying here (and dating several TWN girls from 25-36
yos, here is my take: Taiwanese women are narcissists, especially if she is
even slightly attractive. Most of them live off their parents. If they are
well-off, forget about scoring with them unless you are more well-off than
them, their parents will find every reason in the world NOT to be with you.
$$$$ is king, you can be fat, butt-ugly but if you are rich or appear
rich, they will find every reason in the world to like you. And if you are
not, you can become 'friends' with them, you simply become her platonic
biitch, she only calls when she needs you and will never ever admit she
is just using you for material things but will always give you you subtle
hints of the Coach, LV, or expensive electronic gadget that she really really
wants for her B-day.
Worse, forgetting to bring her purse when inviting her & her friends
to meet you. And if she brings it, puts the onus on you to pay for it
by sitting there silently, not moving, as if waiting for the 'traditional-male
' to pick up the tab.
And if she is poor, she is even more materialistic. I remember our company
hired a TWN girl (27) never held a steady job, complain to us how little she
makes and how her mom has no job and how she has to support her mom... then I found out her 1st paycheck, she went out and bought a IPhone4.. Saying how i twas always her dream. All I can say was "wow" thinking how full of shit she was.
And I'm talking about girls that aren't even that attractive. Maybe a 7/8
out of 10. Yes I'm being shallow by putting them on a scale like that, but
if I'm one feet deep, these girls' can be measured in micrometers.
The younger ones that are even semi-attractive, are even more materialistic and pretentious. Most pretend they are not materialistic. And the few that are not after $$$, are after Beiber looks no matter how gay-looking or irresponsible these guys are.
Most don't have a job and those that do, spend as much money on their
looks as the girls. There are no Rambos, athletic real man here (ok maybe
5% of population, sorry to these real guys).
The guys these girls hang out with are perfect mirror of themselves,
devoid of any personality and has the sophistication of a Lego block. Most
of the skinny, wannabes gay looking guys (they actually think they are
model-quality!!) hang around disco clubs, malls like spoiled rich American
teenagers and spend all their money on the latest fashion craze.
The guys are so skinny and feeble (I'm sure they can double their size
if they went to gym and worked out) that if a typhoon come suddenly, they
all be blow to the ocean. The only thing that makes their wheel turn are
MSN, SKYPE, Facebook, self-portraits of themselves plastered all over each
other's home pages.
God, they make Bieber look macho. No, I'm not the jealous type,
I'm just telling it as it is. I've also been to China/Vietnam/Thailand and
there is a world of difference in the girls' attitudes when I meet them.
I remember meeting girls that are 9 on a scale of 10, with no attitudes,
no BS, no mark-ups that will put the TWN girls to shame.
The girls I've dated, I eventually dumped them for several reasons.
Most girls if they waited until 33 yo, they become DESPERATE, what they
will never give the time of day few years ago all of a sudden become a
candidate for that future husband who will have a baby with her and
enslaved to them the rest of their lives.
They are too old for most guys looking for younger girls and the
nice guys they dumped years ago have married, so they are looking
for ANYONE that makes more than the typical TWN guys and that is less
than 15 years older than them.
And if the girls are 25-30 yo., you are an ATM to them. What the make
a month they can't save enough for the credit cards they maxed out last year,let alone thinking about next week. They are always complaining about not having enough money, I would tell them in my previous relationships, my girlfriends never 'ask' or expect me to support their lifestyle, they ALWAYS lived a lifestyle that they can afford. It isn't about buying her expensive girls or being cheap, it is about having a solidrelationship
based on trust, caring and understanding and respecting each other.
Those words are like PHD dissertation to a kindergarten kid.
Yes they will eventually learn, but these types of girls in TWN are the NORM
not exception. A TWN man once told me, TWN young generation is fvcked.
They try to copycat the worst (superficial side) of USA and Japan but they
don't have the talent, means or education or skills to sustain their lifestyle
they seek. That is why they rather live day to day pretending to be Japanese,or cool American teenagers and LET their parents or idiot guys
that chase them pay for it.
Granted, there are exceptions, but you must look like Bratt Pitt or
Bieber, then you can sex with 1,000 of them without even breaking a sweat.yet the nicest guy can't even hold-hands with them because they are that stuck up.
In fact, that is what one of my friend has told me. he said it is
so easy to have sex with 18-20 yos in Taipei, Kaohsiung or Taichung, all
you have to do is dress cool and have the 'right-look' - as they are
infatuated with blue-eyed, blond hair, Bratt-Pitts, all their cold-BS,
pretentious shitt s as fast as their skirts.
Then these same girls will come crying to you (I know some of them
and have even warned them what these guys are after, but these girls
believe in Cinderella stories and think they are the only Cinderella in
the world). They will cry, sob about how these guys cheated on them, how
they trusted them blah blah...and never ever trust them again... I just
laugh inside know if the same guy calls her again next week or another guy,
they fall for it again.)
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