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作者Ayan63
我一個人自助多年了, 會自助出國的男女比例我的經驗是1:10
早些年自助在國外看到是亞洲面孔的人上前打招呼幾乎是日韓港三地的人, 尤其是韓國人多過日本人這點讓我蠻訝異的, 但這兩三年變成對岸的人居多了.
經歷過其他人看待世界看待人生的觀點後, 這題我有感觸, 認真回答, 我的感覺是, 男人自我包袱沉重, "放不下"
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這個包袱是自己扛的還是社會傳統/觀念給的?
等哪一天女人不會要求男人要有車有房有百萬鎂的存款才嫁, 長輩不會拼命要 30 以前成家生小孩, 再來談有沒有包袱.
說穿了誰不想出去旅行? 放鬆心情?
男人要靠女人養當然是沒關係, 但是台灣有哪個女人會願意養一個到了30 沒車沒房沒存款的男人?
外國女性比較獨立, 不會老靠男人養, 所以不管男女, 想走出去包包一背就出門了, 不必擔心要存錢養家.
台灣? 呵~
想出去絕對被念: 將來怎麼辦, 現在玩, 哪來的錢娶老婆?
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